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Friday, November 20, 2009 @ 12:22 AM

Role reversal? Equal world?

What a coincidence.

Yesterday, SMU high-flier had this as his Facebook status - (SMU high-flier) thinks it is perfectly fine for ladies to make the first move!

Today, sisters and I stumbled upon a repeat telecast of the Channel U talkshow 'Woman(women?) on Top' or '女人大主意' in Mandarin, that was having a discussion on whether women should make the first move.

What do you think?

My view is, in today's world, men do fancy being chased and it's increasingly acceptable if one hears a woman doing the chasing. But me? Call me traditional, call me gutless, I'm remaining a 被动者 (as opposed to 主动者).

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