merry is love ;

MERRY is LOVE ;

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Tuesday, February 14, 2012 @ 9:51 PM

Somebody to love

14 February.

Valentine's day.

Yet another one spent without a partner. Yet another one spent with Mag and PM.

I do not rue this tradition we have had for some 4 to 5 years now. Rather, I'm very glad and thankful that we are continuing with this practice because it means I don't have to spend this over-commercialised day by my lonesome self.

I met a fair number of good friends today. I met S for lunch, and Mag and PM for dinner. I should be feeling some kind of special but I don't.

Why?

I wonder if the lack of special-ness could be due to the frequency of our meetings. Or could it just be a general sense of boredom since we've known each other for so long? Would a catch-up session once in a blue moon be better instead?

Are we trying too hard to maintain our relationships?

I love my friends, don't get me wrong. But there must be something more to gel people together for 10, 20, or 30 years.

That something is what I would like to find out.

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